I’ve taken a few risks in my life and a couple involved big moves. I’m certainly not done taking risks, I only hope to take bigger ones as life move on, but the one I always hoped would pan-out was moving West, ultimately I wanted to end up in Southern California. I’m here and it’s been 6 months, so here’s my take on it.
A blue-collared kid from Detroit with empty pockets just can’t justify paying Southern California bills, luckily my good buddies Matt and Josh had a couch for me to sleep on back in 2005. This couch wasn’t a So-Cal couch though, it was located in Tempe, Arizona. Not at bad start, plus I figured I wouldn’t be sleeping much anyways, which we didn’t. Arizona was a nice place to set up shop for a little while but I knew I was going to end up here one day.
Southern California has a lot of stereotypes, and I’m here to confirm they’re almost all true. The cost of living is high, it’s all about flash, and the beaches are majestic. Not to mention there is a ton of ego and attitude in the air, which people from other parts of the country really misunderstand. It’s tough to explain but the attitude is something you just can’t take personally, which some people find it hard to do. Southern California people have been living life a much higher pace for a lot longer than most places (New York City is obviously a step above), so aggressive driving and a “to the point” way of communicating is part of everyday life. If you can accept this as part of the culture and adapt you’ll realize it flows because of it, and no ones feelings get hurt.
The thing I love the most about California is it has multiple metropolitan hubs that all have different ways of life and identities. You can visit any one of these cities within a days drive and enjoy what’s different about that place. We live in Newport Beach on the Balboa Peninsula in the lower level of a pretty cool duplex. In the beach communities of California this a pretty common setup. We have about half the space of our Phoenix home for about twice the money, but it’s worth every penny. The area we live in is a semi-urban beach community that is sleepy most of spring, fall, and winter, but rowdy throughout the summers with tourist traffic and the bar crowd enjoying the summer sun and beautiful surf. It’s almost like our town gets invaded. The great part is you can go anywhere on the peninsula by way of beach cruiser. Life definitely slows slows down on the weekends here.
San Diego is a 1.5 hour drive South, Los Angeles is about 45 minutes North on the I-5, and Palm Springs is 1.5 hours to the East. Los Angeles is the big city with all the eccentricity you see on TV, San Diego is clean and slower paced. Inside these bigger hubs are many smaller cities that people identify closely with, and they take it VERY seriously. People get angry if you get your stereotypes mixed up. For instance, where we live in Newport Beach on the Peninsula, we are called “Newps” by other cities, other areas consider us snobby upscale beach city. Corona Del Mar is a smaller city that has been annexed by Newport Beach and is where you’ll see your “real housewives” and many pairs of Sperry Topsiders. Laguna Beach is also south of us and is considered a very artsy city. Huntington Beach is to the North, has the nickname “Surf City USA” and is where your “bruiser” crowd hangs out. Lots of tattoos and “tough-guy” types here, but a cool main street area overall. Then there are the “inlanders”, this name is given to those who live in the San Bernardino and Riverside counties, generally because of the lower cost of living. One thing all of the beach communities have in common is they all despise the stereotypical “inlander”, only because they tend to come in large, loud crowds and don’t always respect the neighborhoods of the locals. Of course, these are just the extremes of each area, they’re all great places to spend time over the weekend, depending on what you want to see.
We never get bored here, there is always something going on. Entertainers either live here or love to come here, so there are always events. It’s an outdoors man’s dream, with Ocean and Mountains all along the coast there is a never-ending amount of adventure. I’ve been to and seen some of the most beautiful international scenery and can say the most beautiful place I’ve been is right in the State I live in. California is huge into philanthropy and promoters love to tie it into fun events. Nothing feels better than giving back while networking and building new business, all while doing something you enjoy (like the John Wayne Cancer Foundation’s stand-up paddling events to raise money for cures). The ultimate mixing of business and pleasure, Californian’s have mastered it!
Healthy living is huge here and considered part of the lifestyle in almost all parts. It’s taken so seriously that any chain restaurant with more than 16 locations must list calorie counts on the entire menu. I’ve always been an active person so I like that society here holds you accountable. They say Californian’s love to play, which I would have to agree with, almost all my neighbors are active as well. They’re either going surfing, running, hiking, or doing something outdoors. Active lifestyle is a fixture here and I love that.
“It costs more”, “it’s too expensive”, when I told people we were moving to California that’s all I kept hearing. Well, my electricity bill was over $300/month last summer in Phoenix from the non-stop running AC unit that kept us from melting in our home. This summer my average electricity bill has been $18, the weather is a steady 73 degrees almost all year, a little warmer in summer and a little cooler in winters, but not by much. All we do is open the windows or get the fireplace going, that’s all it takes. That said, it IS a much more expensive place to live, luckily we are fortunate enough to be to cover those costs.
What people don’t mention is that Californian’s spend more than anyone too, so from the perspective of a small business owner I’ve been able to take advantage of the enormous populous and inflated pricing of retail goods. It’s true, there is gold in these hills, sure it costs more but you should ultimately make more. California is where the big boys come to play in business, if you want to see how good you are in your industry this is where you come to check your rank. Like the other industrial hubs of the world (New York, London, Hong Kong) it is tougher to get your footing, but the sky is the limit as far as how big your company can grow here.
I’ve justified the reason why it costs more for less living space here in California, it’s because you’re punching your ticket to endless amounts of fun and activity. After six months it’s every bit of what I would thought it would be and more. I’m glad I can call California home and look forward to building my family here.
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